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Below is a list of terms and jargon in use in the escorts world.

  Here are the "S" Terms:

Abbreviation for "sadism and masochism". Generally used to describe an activity or group of activities that involve inflicting or receiving pain as a form of gratification.
Deriving pleasure or sexual excitement from  disciplining, punishing, or humiliating another person. Deriving pleaseure from causing physical or emotional pain on another person.
Sexual practices where an individual derives pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation onto others or oneself.
One who practices sadomasochism.


Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.
Safe Sex
Sexual encounter in which each individual protects themselves against disease, usually by using a condom or avoiding contact with bodily fluids.
Safe Word
A certain word, used in BDSM activity, which means that the current activity must stop.
Tantric sex term for the 7th Chakra.
Arousing sexual desire.
Tantric sex term for deep meditation.

San Juan Capistrano

BBBJTC and she "swallows."

Sandbag, Sandbagger

A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.

Sans Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ

SC Strip Club
Defecation on your partner or feces play.
Slang for a large penis.
Slang for achieving sexual activity with a desired partner.


A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client.
Slang for sexual intercourse.
Scrotal Sack
Synonym for the scrotum.
The sack of skin and thin muscle surrounding a man's testicles.
Second Base
Slang for foreplay, usually touching the breasts or genitals.
Term for masturbation.

A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.


Masturbation. e.g. "It was a self-service jack shack" = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
The fluid that is ejaculated from the penis during orgasm.
Semen Analysis
The evaluation of ejaculate for sperm volume, count and motility.

Sensual Massage

Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.


Paid time spent with a provider.

Used to describe the act of reproduction between males and females or a term which distinguishes between the two genders.
Sex Act
Referring to a certain sexual position or act.
Sex Aids
Sex toys, usually vibrators and dildos.
Sex Cell
A term for a reproductive cell.
Sex Drive
The primary desire to have sex.
Sex Lube
A lubricant used during sexual activity.
Sex Object
A person who is regarded only as an object of sexual desire.
Sex Toy
A toy or device used to increase sexual pleasure and provide added erotic stimulation, such as a vibrator or dildo.

Sex Worker

Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses.
Having bias against a certain gender.
A person who studies sex and the interactions between males and females.
The study of sex and human sexuality.
A sex expert; combination of the word sex with expert.
Adjective; pertaining to sex.
Sexual Activity
Any activity that is sexual in nature.
Sexual Aid
Synonym for sex toy, such as a vibrator or dildo.
Sexual Dysfunction
Physical and mental difficulties with arousal, lack of desire, fear of intimacy and overactive sexual activity.
Sexual Harassment
Unwelcome and unsolicited sexual comments or sexually explicit actions designed to intimidate or degrade another person.
Sexual Immorality
Biblical term. Refers to intercourse between unmarried people.
Sexual Intercourse
The act of inserting an object, usually the penis, into the vagina or anus.
Sexual Orientation
Sexual identification, as defined by a person's sexual relationships or affinity.
Referring to the sex of a person, or the state of being sexual.
To raise sexual awareness or to make sexual.


Sex for hire.


Street Girls
The shaft of the penis. The length of the penis between the scrotum and the head.
Slang for sexual intercourse.
A transsexual who has not undergone gender reassignment surgery who is living as a woman, but hasn't had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect.


An insider posing as a satisfied customer.

Shill A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider.
A skin condition caused by re-activation of a varicella zoster virus infection, usually acquired during childhood.
The act of simultaneously inserting two fingers into the vagina and one into the anus.

Shots on goal

Shot On Goal (one release)
The act of licking or sucking a partner's toes.
Significant Other
An individual's romantic partner.
A material used to make sex toys. Silicone is a high-quality material that is not effected by oil-based lubricants or high temperatures.
Silicone Dildo
A dildo made from silicone. Silicone dildos are resistant to most types of lubrication and don't require special cleaning, as is required for jelly or latex dildos.
Silicone Vibrator
A vibrator whose shell or sleeve is made of silicone. Silicone vibrators are often waterproof and can be cleaned with any mild soap or sex toy cleaner. Silicone vibrators or silicone sleeves are impervious to oil-based lubrication.
Silver Bullet
Slang for vibrator.
Slang for partners performing oral sex on each other simultaneously.

A prostitute, or a woman who is considered promiscuous

Semen, or the act of ejaculation.

Slam, Slammed

An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider.


A submissive person who is involved in a slave/master fantasy.
Slave Training
The instruction of a submissive person in a dominant's preference.
A thin piece of material, usually Cyberskin, jelly or latex, that slips over a vibrator to give it more texture and thickness.
Slimline Vibrator
A vibrator that is cylindrical and is curved at the tip. A traditional vibrator is almost always a slimline variety. Slimline vibrators have been around for many years.
Slang for a woman who has or who has had many sexual partners.
The white or yellowish substance, consisting of dead skin cells, which collects under the foreskin of the penis.
Smooth Dildo
A dildo with a smooth surface. Opposite of veined dildo.
Slang for the vagina.
Slang for making out, or heavy kissing.
Snowball / Snowballing
The act of transferring semen from one person's mouth to another, usually female to female.
Kissing your partner after they ejaculate in your mouth, without expelling the semen.


Significant Other
The insertion of the penis into the anus.


Shit on Floor
Soft Swap
Partner swapping, or allowing your partner to have sex with someone else in your presence.
Soft Touch
A soft, skin-like material commonly used to make realistic sex toys.


Shot On Goal (one release)

Stantard Operating Procedure

Sat On My Face

Standard Operating Procedure
South of the Border Gential Region
Southern France


Service Provider


ATM[/blue][/b] Ass to Mouth
Spanish Fly
Slang for a substance used to increase sexual desire.
Striking or paddling a submissive partner.
An instrument used to spread the vagina open so that the cervix can be seen.
Semen; the male gamete.
Sperm Agglutination
Sperm clumping caused by antibody reactions or by infection.
Sperm Count
The number of sperm in ejaculate. Also called sperm concentration and given as the number of sperm per milliliter.
Sperm Maturation
A process during which the sperm grow and gain their ability to swim. Sperm take about ninety days to reach maturity.
Sperm Morphology
A semen analysis factor that indicates the number or percentage of sperm in the sample that appear to have been formed normally.
Sperm Motility
The ability of sperm to swim. Poor motility means the sperm have a difficult time swimming toward the female egg.
Sperm Penetration
The ability of the sperm to penetrate the egg so it can deposit the genetic material during fertilization.
Sperm production in the testicles.
An agent, usually a chemical, that kills sperm.
Slang for ejaculation.


Very petite, thin girl.
The act of expelling semen from the mouth after ejaculation resulting from oral sex.
An absorbent contraceptive device that is impregnated with spermicide and inserted into the vagina before sexual intercourse to cover the cervix.
Spontaneous Abortion
A pregnancy loss during the first twenty weeks of gestation.
Spoon / Spooning
Slang for two people lying parallel on their sides, "cuddling", while facing the same direction.
Slang for semen.
Slang for female ejaculation.

Squirting, Squirter Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates.


Sex Reassignment Surgery


Short Time
STD or Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Abbreviation for Sexually Transmitted Disease. Any disease - such as syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, genital warts or AIDS - which can be passed to another person during sexual activity.
An irreversible condition that prevents conception.
The death of a fetus between the twentieth week of gestation and birth.


A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.
Stinky Pinky
Slang for female masturbation or inserting a finger into the anus.


Short Term Relationship
Slang for a heterosexual person.
Strap-on / Strap on
A dildo that is worn around the waist, via a strap.

Street action

Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location.
Street Walker
Slang for a prostitute


Terms describing the act of leaving red stipes or red marks on the skin from being caned or strapped.


Path frequented by street walkers.
Slang for the penis.
Slang for a male who has frequent and varied sex partners.
Short for Submissive.
Sublimate / Sublimation
The unconscious act of converting instinctual drives and urges into actions that are considered socially acceptable.
The person who is dominated in a BDSM relationship.
Suck Face
Slang for making out, or heavy kissing.
Suck Off
Slang for oral sex.
Sugar Daddy
Slang for a man who financially supports a younger person in return for sexual favors.

Summer Teeth

Her teeth, some are there, some are not.

Sunshine, Sunny

Without a condom (i.e. No raincoat)


Escort Hobbyist slag for streetwalker, or sex worker. Derogatory espression to put down an low quality or very low priced escort who has ghetto approach as apposed to being more high class.
Tantric sex term for 2nd Chakra.
Swap / Swapping
Trading sexual partners, usually within a group.
Slang for a person who is in a committed relationship, but who engages in sex with multiple partners with the partner's knowledge.
When a person trades places in a SM role or physical play.
Switch Hitter
Slang for a bisexual person.
The act of swallowing semen after ejaculation resulting from oral sex.

Sword Swallower

Pornstar, escort, or prostitute who can orally handle any length penis.

A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle.

Sweet Young Thing


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