Abbreviation for "sadism and masochism". Generally
used to describe an activity or group of activities that
involve inflicting or receiving pain as a form of gratification.
Deriving pleasure or sexual excitement from disciplining,
punishing, or humiliating another person. Deriving pleaseure
from causing physical or emotional pain on another person.
Sexual practices where an individual derives pleasure
from inflicting pain or humiliation onto others or oneself.
One who practices sadomasochism.
Sexual activity in which various measures, such as the use of condoms or dental dams, are taken to avoid disease (as AIDS) transmitted by sexual contact. e.g. All activities were safe.
Sexual encounter in which each individual protects themselves
against disease, usually by using a condom or avoiding
contact with bodily fluids.
A certain word, used in BDSM activity, which means that
the current activity must stop.
Tantric sex term for the 7th Chakra.
Arousing sexual desire.
Tantric sex term for deep meditation.
San Juan Capistrano
BBBJTC and she "swallows."
A subjective term for a review (or reviewer) that misleads the reader by giving unwarranted praise to a provider.
Sans Without. e.g. She provided french sans beret = BBBJ
SC Strip Club
Defecation on your partner or feces play.
Slang for a large penis.
Slang for achieving sexual activity with a desired partner.
A provider or agency does a pre-session background check on a new client.
Slang for sexual intercourse.
Synonym for the scrotum.
The sack of skin and thin muscle surrounding a man's testicles.
Slang for foreplay, usually touching the breasts or genitals.
Term for masturbation.
A provider or agency poses as a hobbyist, and posts a highly positive review of herself or agency to increase business.
Masturbation. e.g. "It was a self-service jack shack" = no contact with the dancer, but the man can masturbate.
The fluid that is ejaculated from the penis during orgasm.
The evaluation of ejaculate for sperm volume, count and
Not usually full service; expect only massage (usually nude or topless) and handjob, but more services might be available.
Paid time spent with a provider.
Used to describe the act of reproduction between males
and females or a term which distinguishes between the
Referring to a certain sexual position or act.
Sex toys, usually vibrators and dildos.
A term for a reproductive cell.
The primary desire to have sex.
A lubricant used during sexual activity.
A person who is regarded only as an object of sexual desire.
A toy or device used to increase sexual pleasure and provide
added erotic stimulation, such as a vibrator or dildo.
Catch all phrase sometimes used to describe prostitutes. May also be used in the context of strippers, peep show workers, topless waitresses.
Having bias against a certain gender.
A person who studies sex and the interactions between
males and females.
The study of sex and human sexuality.
A sex expert; combination of the word sex with expert.
Adjective; pertaining to sex.
Any activity that is sexual in nature.
Synonym for sex toy, such as a vibrator or dildo.
Physical and mental difficulties with arousal, lack of
desire, fear of intimacy and overactive sexual activity.
Unwelcome and unsolicited sexual comments or sexually
explicit actions designed to intimidate or degrade another
Biblical term. Refers to intercourse between unmarried
The act of inserting an object, usually the penis, into
the vagina or anus.
Sexual identification, as defined by a person's sexual
relationships or affinity.
Referring to the sex of a person, or the state of being
To raise sexual awareness or to make sexual.
Sex for hire.
The shaft of the penis. The length of the penis between
the scrotum and the head.
Slang for sexual intercourse.
A transsexual who has not undergone gender reassignment
surgery who is living as a woman, but hasn't had SRS. Penis may or may not get erect.
An insider posing as a satisfied customer.
Shill A hobbyist who writes unwarranted positive reviews in exchange for discounts or special favors from an agency or provider.
A skin condition caused by re-activation of a varicella
zoster virus infection, usually acquired during childhood.
The act of simultaneously inserting two fingers into the
vagina and one into the anus.
Shots on goal
Shot On Goal (one release)
The act of licking or sucking a partner's toes.
An individual's romantic partner.
A material used to make sex toys. Silicone is a high-quality
material that is not effected by oil-based lubricants
or high temperatures.
A dildo made from silicone. Silicone dildos are resistant
to most types of lubrication and don't require special
cleaning, as is required for jelly or latex dildos.
A vibrator whose shell or sleeve is made of silicone.
Silicone vibrators are often waterproof and can be cleaned
with any mild soap or sex toy cleaner. Silicone vibrators
or silicone sleeves are impervious to oil-based lubrication.
Slang for vibrator.
Slang for partners performing oral sex on each other simultaneously.
A prostitute, or a woman who is considered promiscuous
Semen, or the act of ejaculation.
An unwarranted harsh review or abusive criticism of a provider.
A submissive person who is involved in a slave/master
The instruction of a submissive person in a dominant's
A thin piece of material, usually Cyberskin, jelly or
latex, that slips over a vibrator to give it more texture
A vibrator that is cylindrical and is curved at the
tip. A traditional vibrator is almost always a slimline
variety. Slimline vibrators have been around for many
Slang for a woman who has or who has had many sexual
The white or yellowish substance, consisting of dead
skin cells, which collects under the foreskin of the
A dildo with a smooth surface. Opposite of veined dildo.
Slang for the vagina.
Slang for making out, or heavy kissing.
Snowball / Snowballing
The act of transferring semen from one person's mouth
to another, usually female to female.
Kissing your partner after they ejaculate in your mouth,
without expelling the semen.
The insertion of the penis into the anus.
Shit on Floor
Partner swapping, or allowing your partner to have sex
with someone else in your presence.
A soft, skin-like material commonly used to make realistic
Shot On Goal (one release)
Stantard Operating Procedure
Sat On My Face
Standard Operating Procedure
South of the Border Gential Region
ATM[/blue][/b] Ass to Mouth
Slang for a substance used to increase sexual desire.
Striking or paddling a submissive partner.
An instrument used to spread the vagina open so that
the cervix can be seen.
Semen; the male gamete.
Sperm clumping caused by antibody reactions or by infection.
The number of sperm in ejaculate. Also called sperm
concentration and given as the number of sperm per milliliter.
A process during which the sperm grow and gain their
ability to swim. Sperm take about ninety days to reach
A semen analysis factor that indicates the number or
percentage of sperm in the sample that appear to have
been formed normally.
The ability of sperm to swim. Poor motility means the
sperm have a difficult time swimming toward the female
The ability of the sperm to penetrate the egg so it
can deposit the genetic material during fertilization.
Sperm production in the testicles.
An agent, usually a chemical, that kills sperm.
Slang for ejaculation.
Very petite, thin girl.
The act of expelling semen from the mouth after ejaculation
resulting from oral sex.
An absorbent contraceptive device that is impregnated
with spermicide and inserted into the vagina before
sexual intercourse to cover the cervix.
A pregnancy loss during the first twenty weeks of gestation.
Spoon / Spooning
Slang for two people lying parallel on their sides,
"cuddling", while facing the same direction.
Slang for semen.
Slang for female ejaculation.
Squirting, Squirter Female ejaculation, a provider who ejaculates.
Sex Reassignment Surgery
STD or Sexually Transmitted Diseases
Abbreviation for Sexually Transmitted Disease. Any disease - such as syphilis, gonorrhea, herpes, genital
warts or AIDS - which can be passed to another person
during sexual activity.
An irreversible condition that prevents conception.
The death of a fetus between the twentieth week of gestation
A female police officer poses as a prostitute to apprehend unsuspecting johns, or a male police officer poses as a john to apprehend unsuspecting prostitutes.
Slang for female masturbation or inserting a finger
into the anus.
Short Term Relationship
Slang for a heterosexual person.
Strap-on / Strap on
A dildo that is worn around the waist, via a strap.
Prostitution that is solicited on public streets. Prostitutes (usually on foot) are picked up by Johns in motor vehicles. Sexual acts may occur in the vehicle, or at another agreed upon location.
Slang for a prostitute
describing the act of leaving red stipes or red marks
on the skin from being caned or strapped.
Path frequented by street walkers.
Slang for the penis.
Slang for a male who has frequent and varied sex partners.
Short for Submissive.
Sublimate / Sublimation
The unconscious act of converting instinctual drives
and urges into actions that are considered socially
The person who is dominated in a BDSM relationship.
Slang for making out, or heavy kissing.
Slang for oral sex.
Slang for a man who financially supports a younger person
in return for sexual favors.
Her teeth, some are there, some are not.
Without a condom (i.e. No raincoat)
Hobbyist slag for streetwalker, or sex worker. Derogatory espression
to put down an low quality or very low priced escort
who has ghetto approach as apposed to being more high
Tantric sex term for 2nd Chakra.
Swap / Swapping
Trading sexual partners, usually within a group.
Slang for a person who is in a committed relationship,
but who engages in sex with multiple partners with the
When a person trades places in a SM role or physical
Slang for a bisexual person.
The act of swallowing semen after ejaculation resulting
from oral sex.
escort, or prostitute who can orally handle any length
A mechanical sex device that is in the shape of half-barrel with a dildo attachment mounted in the middle.
Sweet Young Thing